tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37549550763626948862011-09-02T07:57:00.490-04:00so I will bless You as long as I live...Psalm 63Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16891929266198531013noreply@blogger.comBlogger1731100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3754955076362694886.post-64440980200462960382011-05-05T23:15:00.002-04:002011-05-05T23:20:14.234-04:00

Be faithful to me, O God! Keep me near to You, clinging to Your Word and Your promises. Remind me when I forget, that You are with me and for me, and that You will not leave me or forsake me. Draw me to rest on Your hand, Lord, knowing that all things are held together by Your great power. Assure me of Your goodness, act on my behalf. Be merciful to me in my doubts and fears - cast out all

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In recent days, there has been an explosion of writing, discussion and even disagreement on the topic of Christian singleness. Publishers seem to be cranking out book upon book addressing the rising frequency of delayed marriage among Christian young adults. Such conversations about singleness and having a biblical view toward marriage can be challenging and even burdensome at times. As we see

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I know my blog has been silent for over a month now. I honestly don't care to share much about why, other than to say that I have been sidetracked with many things, and also contemplating much about my desires for writing. I love writing. I have for many years. I think I have known for a long time that it was a natural inclination that allows me to work through my thoughts, emotions and

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We often tend to think that the cross is all about our salvation and about acquiring heaven. And it is, but it is even more about being transformed and restored to the image of God (which is how we were created) day by day. The “new man” Paul speaks of putting on in his letters is Christ – Christ is the new man! We are putting on Christ every day. We know the two greatest commandments are to love

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I am a Christian - my identity is in Christ, and a woman - created as such by God, specifically intended to fulfill my role as such, and lastly, a single. My marital status has very little to do with my identity, just as it does for a married woman, a widowed woman, a divorced woman, a single mother. One’s identity is whether or not they are in Christ, and then they live out that Christ-focused

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I have been reading (off and on) C.S. Lewis' book, The Four Loves. In it, he says:"For a Christian, there are no chances. A secret Master has been atwork. Christ, who said to the disciples, 'Ye have not chosen me, but Ihave chosen you,' can truly say to every group of Christian friends,'You have not chosen one another but I have chosen you for oneanother'. Friendship is not a reward for our

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I was recently asked to share a personal testimony on the other blog for which I write (http://livingascalled.blogspot.com/ - the blog for the singles ministry at Riverbend Community Church). With my recent posts here on having a troubled mind and how our sins are often initiated by dark and distressing thoughts, I wanted to share here how God has granted me understanding of this in my own life:I

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In my previous post, I shared some helpful words from Timothy Rogers (from his book, Trouble of Mind and the Disease of Melancholy). He has much to say regarding the purposes and designs of our great God in afflicting us. And when we speak of affliction, it is not merely physical ailments or even weighty life circumstances. We actually should think of the deep and sometimes tormenting afflictions

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In recent months I have spoken to or heard of so many who are experiencing difficulties and troubles in their walk on this earth. Life is hard. And sometimes we forget that God has not promised an easy and painless road. In fact, when we thoroughly examine the Scriptures, we find that those who are faithful often experience the most challenging circumstances this life can bring. Even just in

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Recent weeks and months have brought a new appreciation and gratitude in my heart for the dear friendships God has so graciously blessed me with. There are more blessings than I can even number here that have come as a direct result of the loving investment some of my closest friends have made in my life. I was reminded again of this treasure, when reading this blog today:http://

Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16891929266198531013noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3754955076362694886.post-74732988268439268822010-08-07T17:39:00.003-04:002010-08-08T08:14:39.685-04:00

The problem of immodesty, impurity, indiscretion, and seduction seems to never go away...but of particular concern is that it doesn't even seem restrained within the Church. We hear sermons, read devotionals, study Scripture ourselves - and yet the problem remains ever-present. I just returned from a youth camp last week, at which we had the privilege of being taught very clearly about the

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Recent weeks have been filled with so many things that have taken me from my normal desire and ability to write. As I contemplate some thoughts and prepare to post something more substantial, here is a brief item to consider:http://www.pcpc.org/ministries/singles/singledout.phpPaige Benton Brown gives some very helpful insight on singleness and I appreciate how she makes a point to "correct" some

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These recent weeks have brought about new demands on my time, as well as some important opportunities with family I don't see frequently. With that in mind, anyone who happens to read this will have to simply accept the summer rerun I am going to share for this week. These are some thoughts from previous writing I did for a lesson I was teaching in a young women's small group at church. The notes

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Recent days have revealed that I have often allowed so many other things to eclipse the centrality of the cross of Christ in my heart and life. Good things. Things that are often found to be virtuous and pure in Scripture. Things that bring me joy. Things that can be an encouragement to others. And yet...my own soul has often drifted further and further from Christ. When I think upon the cross

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Changing is something that is seemingly impossible at times. Scripture tells us that with God all things are possible, and yet, when we see characteristics of our personality or temperament that have sinful manifestations, we are often discouraged by the "inability" to change. I say inability carefully because on the one hand, we know that is false. With God, in Christ Jesus' righteousness and

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These are the words to one of my favorite songs. And tonight they are a most needful reminder to me of where I do need to go with all the burdens I cannot bear. Because they really do feel unbearable at times. Like last night. My mind was a frenzied whirlwind, utterly unfixed upon the promises of God. Though I prayed a little here and there amidst such thoughts and "tried" to set my mind and

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We are reaching an age in time when discretion has crept out the back door...or in some cases, just ran blatantly right out the front! With the wide open spaces of email, Facebook, blogging, and mySpace, we are free to expose whatever we want for the whole world to hear and see. In a time when Christ has been brought down to our level as a means of excusing sin, we have lost our discretion. We no

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"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ's sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too." Colossians 1:3-5We

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Recent days have brought about distractions as I transition from some major responsibilities of life to some new ventures for a time. This transition is exciting and welcomed, though not without some trepidation. As I contemplate my fitness for the task that lies ahead, I am quickly downcast and despairing - if I listen to the accusations of the enemy. Sometimes there are things we want so badly

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Something I have been contemplating a great deal in recent days is to discern my motives for doing things. It is an important thing for the Christian to think about, as we know that it is God who searches and knows our hearts. Only He can fully determine if there are any wicked ways within us. Then the next critical question is to determine whether we continue doing those things once we recognize

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"I'm so tired.""I don't feel well.""I need a coffee.""If I could just have a break and take a couple days off.""I guess I should call off today. I think I overdid it.""You're a little under the weather? Well, I guess it's alright if you stay home.""I just need a day to recuperate."Sound familiar? It certainly does to me - and not from others, but from my own lips. In fact, let me begin this post

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In recent years, the evangelical world has seen a number of well-respected figures fall from their thrones of influence. Pastors have been caught in adulterous affairs, TV evangelists has been accused of swindling thousands of dollars from faithful viewers, Christian stars have left their spouses for another lover (or even for many reasons that are not biblical grounds for divorce) and then

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My posting has been rather sparse this month, as I am in the midst of some very hectic times, as well as some pivotal self-reflection. However, as I was driving home tonight, the Lord was so good to use a favorite song to point out the vast divide between His glorious and perfect character and my fleshly, self-inflated character. One of my favorite songs on the Gateway Worship album is "You are

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Taken from the book, "Verses of Virtue" by Elizabeth Beall Phillips:As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths. The Lord standeth up to plead, and standeth to judge the people...Moreover the Lord saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks

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Several of my college girls, as well as friends and peers have asked what books I would recommend to women desiring to learn more about biblical womanhood, singleness, marriage and parenting. Because I am working on my graduate school thesis and have been reading non-stop, I thought I would make a list that way it would be a quick reference I could pass along from time to time. Anyway, I am sure

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In a few hours it will be Resurrection Sunday. As I contemplate the meaning of all that is found in Christ's death, burial and resurrection, I think specifically this year what it means to me - as a Christian woman. This past year has been one in which I have come to a deeper love and understanding of my created purpose not just as a human, but as a woman. There is meaning and value in Christ for

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Most everyone in my immediate circle of life has heard the news that my mother has been diagnosed with cancer. We don't know much yet about the treatment plan, but are hopefully optimistic that it won't be too bad since it was caught in very early stages. It's funny how quickly that becomes THE topic of conversation - people are shocked, concerned, prayerful, generously desirous to help, eager to

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These are the days of Elijah, Declaring the word of the Lord;And these are the days of your servant Moses,Righteousness being restored;And though these are days of great trialsOf famine and darkness and sword;Still we are the voice in the desert, crying,"Prepare ye the way of the Lord!"Behold He comes riding on the clouds.Shining like the sun, at the trumpet call.Lift your voice; it's the year of

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Susan Hunt says, "The true woman is not afraid to place herself in a position of submission. She does not have to grasp; she does not have to control. Her fear dissolves in the light of God's covenant promise to be her God and to live with her. Submission is simply a demonstration of her confidence in the sovereign power of the Lord God." I love to control things, situations, my time, people. I

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In recent days I have been reflecting on my tendencies to become discouraged by the difficulties of life. I have experienced the ups and downs of life's challenges, particularly spiritual challenges. It is so easy to become downcast, or even just numb to the realities of life because we are overcome at times by periods of profound discouragement. We then become so tired of it all, we seek out

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In recent weeks I have been experiencing some very painful and yet deeply precious times of repentance and refinement from the Lord. I don't care to share specific details, because though I think it is helpful at times to be encouraged through the mass medium of technology - my walk with the Lord is a private one, one which can easily be distorted or misrepresented if given too much exposure.

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It seems that there are often times in life when we don't do something or we refuse to fully engage in a relationship because we are fearful it won't last or that we might do something to spoil it. We spend our time anxious about whether the blessing that has been granted will remain, fretting over the unknown of when it might disappear. I spend far too much time analyzing the paths of my life -

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Typical emotional struggles women face:-Jealousy – thinking we deserved something more than the one who got it-Irritability – using the excuse of our fatigue or PMS for failing to exercise self-control-Depression – we want to wallow in our unhappiness, refusing comfort-Loneliness – believing that God has not given us enough -Self-pity – we doubt the goodness of God and become angry when we don’t

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Today I watched a dear young sister in the Lord take a benevolent and wise young man as her forever husband. It was beautiful, Christ was exalted! I am so grateful to God for the past couple of weddings I have had the privilege to take part in and witness the abundant mercy of our great God to faithfully knit two hearts as one in a glorious display of His own redemption toward man. Sitting in the

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I don't often speak on specifically personal things on my blog, and I rarely share photos. But tonight I have been particularly reminiscing on a couple of sweet friends, whom I miss so much it aches sometimes. God has been so generous in blessing me with some very precious friendships, and I praise Him for allowing me to walk side by side with some very special women these past several years. But

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As my days are quite busy, I find less time to write as much as I would like, particularly original writing. But I do read a TON, between teaching, grad school and just personal study, so I have been reflecting a little on spiritual mothering for the past several months. I have read many things about this topic, so what I share in this brief post is merely a drop in a giant bucket of material

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Sin, like some powerful astringent, contracted his soul to the very small dimensions of selfishness; and God was forsaken, and fellow creatures forsaken, and man retired within himself, and became totally governed by narrow and selfish principles and feelings. Self-love became absolute master of his soul, and the more noble and spiritual principles of his being took wings and flew away. But God,

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Here are some points of contrast between the woman who is not thinking soundly and the woman who is...may we learn to be the latter. A woman who does not have sound thinking: - is impulsive - lacks discretion - follows worldly philosophies - is driven by her flesh - lacks follow-through - is self-centered - is discontented - has emotions controlled by circumstances - seeks escapism from her

Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16891929266198531013noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3754955076362694886.post-71025013549031939342010-01-17T15:12:00.002-05:002010-01-17T15:56:52.394-05:00

A dear friend of mine recently gave me a copy of John Piper's new book, A Sweet and Bitter Providence. At first, with so many other things to read for graduate school, I only read a page or two each night at bedtime. However, this weekend it has become something I haven't been able to put down! At dinner with a fellow unmarried woman the other night, we were both reflecting on how abundant God's

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Brothers, let us come together Walking in the Spirit, there's much to be done...We will come reaching, out from our comfortsAnd they will know us by our love...Sisters, we were made for kindnessWe can pierce the darkness as He shines through us...We will come reaching, with a song of healing...And they will know us by our love!The time is nowCome Church arise...Love with His handsSee with His

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So my blog is predominantly thoughts about God, singleness, biblical counseling...and more. But today I just have to post this amazing recipe I tried out over the holidays that was a big hit and a personal favorite. Ingredients:1 prepared 9-in. chocolate crumb crust1-2/3 cups (10oz.)Dark Chocolate & Mint morsels, divided2 pkgs. (8oz. each) lowfat cream cheese, room temperature3/4 cup packed brown

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After rereading my post from several hours ago, I wanted to point out one further thing regarding "fellowship". True Christian fellowship is not having a dinner out or going to the movies. I think we erroneously believe we are having Christian fellowship anytime we engage in such activities with other Christians. These events actually just provide an opportunity for true fellowship. You can go to

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Let me preface this post with a couple of disclaimers (I guess that's what we would call them:)...1)I am not turning this blog into a "singles" blog despite some frequent posts on the subject of being unmarried. However, because I am in the process of working on my graduate thesis (which is about the unmarried woman), it is a more pertinent consideration in my life these days.2)I am not

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The holidays are always a time that can be quite difficult for many walking through this temporal life. Maybe a spouse of many years has passed recently, maybe one's marriage has unexpectedly and tragically ended, maybe a parent has died...or sadly, maybe a child, or maybe one has watched another year pass without a family of her own. I would fall into the latter category, and I would immediately

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I am currently reading through the book, Come, Thou Long Expected Jesus by Nancy Guthrie. It is a compilation of many great writers including Charles Spurgeon, George Whitefield and John Piper. Each short chapter is a summary of a sermon or book previously recorded on the topic of Christmas. They are intended to be read as an advent book. I have been so encouraged by these chapters to ponder what

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When I was in my teen years and early college, I was a terrible friend. I had so many ridiculous expectations for people and thought I was so great and wondered why they couldn't just be a good friend. I also, at times, did not choose my friends so wisely, which didn't help matters. Though I was a Christian at the time, I was a very immature and poorly taught one at best. My friends were

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Yesterday, I read a very insightful post on the "Council of Biblical Manhood & Womanhood" site. Though it speaks of the effects of culture on womanhood, it is important to note how many areas of life we allow culture to inform and impact. There are many preachers nowadays who are adjusting their message to fit within the cultural atmosphere in which they serve. Knowing that is the case, this

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I read a blog written by one of the student deans at my graduate school, The Master's College. He often has some very thoughtful things to say, and although he wrote this most recent post directed at the students of the college, I think it is especially pertinent for the young people being raised and working through early adulthood in a strong doctrinally sound church, much like the one I attend.

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“Oh, bless our God, you peoples!And make the voice of His praise to be heard,9 Who keeps our soul among the living,And does not allow our feet to be moved.10 For You, O God, have tested us;You have refined us as silver is refined.11 You brought us into the net;You laid affliction on our backs.12 You have caused men to ride over our heads;We went through fire and through water;But You brought us

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Let all mortal flesh keep silence, and with fear and trembling stand; Ponder nothing earthly minded, For with blessing is His hand, Christ our God to earth descendeth, Our full homage to demand.Fernando OrtegaI have so many thoughts swirling in my mind this week, actually for several weeks now. There have been some interesting bumps in my road lately as well as the anticipated holiday season and

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How do you truly recognize when you are looking for an excuse for your sin? Well, it’s just like Eve in Gen. 3:1 – “Did God really say?” As young women, how often do we find ourselves asking some variation of this question. For example, in regards to our dress – “well God did not clearly outline the specifics of what is modest and immodest so how can we be so stringent?” or “Well God never said

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TIME magazine has finally stated what we can easily see when we observe the world around us...that "as women have gained more freedom, more education and more economic power, they have become less happy." What a shocker, considering we have done away with the purposeful and precious roles that God intricately designed us for and placed the god of selfish ambition first! May we redeem the times

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“Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For His sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in Him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith – that I

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In our church college ministry, we have been studying through the book, Knowing the Heart, by Jonathan Edwards. Tonight I taught the ladies from a chapter entitled, “The Gadarenes Loved Their Swine More than Jesus Christ”. Following are the notes I prepared for this lesson. I cannot take credit for a lot of it, as my pastor, Michael Harsch, gave me a great deal of insight for it. And I must add,

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Even though there are no special holidays in honor of my mother right now, and really no upcoming ones, I have been pondering my appreciation for her much in recent days. I have also been pondering how little I express that appreciation to her. Saying thanks every time she does something for me is not nearly worthy of the true measure of my gratitude for her. I must note furthermore, that it is

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As I study and practice biblical counseling more and more, it becomes so evident that there is a great divide between modern psychology and biblical guidance. Last year I actually wrote a paper on this very topic, entitled, “The Importance of Biblical Counseling to the Ministry of the Local Church,” from which I would like to share some points that bear repeating. In recent days I have heard so

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It is so easy in this earthly pilgrimage to become discouraged and unsettled when we are constantly confronted by one another’s sins – sins of careless or thoughtless words, sins of unloving and unmerciful attitudes, sins of cold or harsh behavior. Even more so, we become discouraged when we see our own sins so quickly bubble to the surface. In these days or moments when we become weary of

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29When the LORD your God cuts off before you the nations whom you go in to dispossess, and you dispossess them and dwell in their land, 30take care that you be not ensnared to follow them, after they have been destroyed before you, and that you do not inquire about their gods, saying, 'How did these nations serve their gods?—that I also may do the same.' 31You shall not worship the LORD your God

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When I am weary, this bears particular importance for me to remember. What I really need is simply Jesus!In the morning, when I riseIn the morning, when I riseIn the morning, when I rise, give me JesusGive me Jesus,Give me Jesus,You can have all this world,But give me JesusWhen I am aloneWhen I am aloneWhen I am alone, give me JesusGive me Jesus,Give me Jesus,You can have all this world,But give

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"Since there are more women and children in the world than men, what a mission field women have! Some women complain, 'I don't have anything to do for Christ.' But the women who say that are usually looking for an excuse because they do not really want to serve Christ sacrificially. Women can never legitimately say that they have nothing to do for Christ until they have taught every needy child

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First of all, please don't think I chose this topic because I am any kind of expert on it. In fact, I actually just finished a research paper on this topic and realized how poor I truly am at repentance...at least a sincere biblical repentance. Can there be any other forms of repentance? Oh yes! The Scriptures say in Second Corinthians 7:10, “For the sorrow that is according to the will of God

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I just finished a 20+ page paper on the Sufficiency of Scripture as related to biblical counseling. WOW! Intensely wonderful! Now I am moving on to finish putting all my notes for my next paper into their final form - this one is on Repetance and remorse vs. Repentance and penance. Also intense! But in the midst of all this reflection, I was reminded quite vividly about why biblical counseling is

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Anyone who knows me knows that I teeter back and forth about whether I want to involve myself in social networking. On the one hand, I guess even this blog could be seen as a form of such. However, I believe that my purposes in blogging are vastly different than the purposes that go along with much of the social networking sites (i.e. Facebook, Twitter, etc.) I still do not really even know what

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Since I am in the midst of paperwork for school, there aren't a lot of original thoughts to dispense at this moment, though my list of future blogging titles is ever-increasing with the hopes that one day I can sit down and develop those ideas more! In the meantime, let me just share a quote that really gripped me last night as I read. "The key to a godly life is not more and more self-generated

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My posting may be a little sparse the next couple of weeks as I have some very intense school assignments that are due, some of which I am struggling greatly to meet the deadlines for. However, I wanted to share just a couple of brief thoughts from the past couple of days, things I am contemplating and have yet to come to some final conclusions. I tend to be a legalist at times, particularly in

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Since I am always looking for some insight into cultivating biblical womanhood, when I came across this quote I knew right away I would have to share it! One thing that troubles me is when we unmarried women in particular, think that somehow we are exempt from pursuing biblical womanhood. Or we think that only certain parts of it apply to us. I would submit however, that knowing Scripture is a

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So here I am working on a paper three hours before the 32nd anniversary of my birth. Not a big deal this year, other than the fact that in recent days I have been able to reflect very specifically on the things I would like for God to accomplish in my life. With age comes a greater longing for heaven and an urgent desire to be united with my precious Jesus. So here is a list of 32 things that I

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I went out of town for a few days this past week and just returned to the pressures of some major school assignments that are due in the next several days. Needless to say, this post will be brief and probably not very unique. But I know I am committed to try and post once or twice per week...so this will have to suffice for this time.One of the things I have been seriously pondering and praying

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Obviously I am experiencing a fresh interest in learning to love Christ exclusively, though I am disappointed when I see how quickly I find satisfaction in other things and my gaze easily shifts from Him to fleeting matters. But when I was in California, I had the privilege of attending the Women Discipling Women conference, put on by The Master's College Biblical Counseling Department - my

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One of the primary things I have been pondering in recent days has been Christ! This sounds a little funny at first, because obviously as a Christian, one would assume that I would ponder Christ. However, in recent experiences I have been so gently reminded of the propensity of man (particularly myself)to rely on self-control and self-discipline, conformation to the Law and the commands of Christ

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So I spent three and half weeks in California at The Master's College working on my graduate degree in biblical counseling, then came home for a day and half only to do laundry and repack to spend this last week at our church youth camp as a high school leader. Needless to say, I am ready to stay put for a bit! However, reflecting on this past month is a precious reminder of all the wonderful

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Martin Luther: "This life therefore, is not righteousness but growth in righteousness, not health but healing, not being but becoming, not rest but exercise. We are not yet what we shall be, but we are growing toward it; the process is not yet finished but it is going on; this is not the end but it is the road. All does not yet gleam in glory but all is being purified.”Today is my last day of

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I am weak. Anyone who knows me at all knows this. I am quick to judge. I am slow to see my sin sometimes. There are days when I sink under my fear of man. I have a lot of pride. I make assumptions about what people mean and then respond according to my assumptions instead of truth. I don’t love people enough. When I do love people, there are often still conditions attached to that love. I am

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The following are notes from a lesson I heard taught last Sunday at Grace Community Church in CA by Pastor Jim Pile. I have to say that it was one of the most encouraging and helpful lessons I have heard….here goes:Opening Quote – “A holy person masters the world while the carnal person is mastered by it.” Marks of True Practical Holiness:1. Holiness is the practice of being of one mind with God,

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In my class, “Theological Basis of Biblical Counseling”, taught by Dr. Baker at The Master’s College, we have been studying the practices and purposes of the local body of Christ. We have spent over ten hours on this topic throughout this week, so consider the following points just a brief snippet of the whole. The point is that we must evaluate our churches in light of these four points and

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As I began my graduate school courses this week, I am already just overwhelmed with gratitude at the truth that is being expounded here. This morning we spent a good portion of time discussing counseling as related to parenting. While I am not a parent, many of my friends are, and with my previous teaching positions, I think this information is highly beneficial for either situation. I have not

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I don't know how often I will be posting throughout the month of July, due to the fact that I just arrived in California for three weeks of my graduate classes at The Master's College in Santa Clarita. I will be in school from 8am-5pm Monday through Friday, so needless to say my time for pondering my writing ideas will most likely be rather slim. But I wanted to share one brief thought as I

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In recent days this psalm has once again taken on special significance in my heart as I have been confronted with some very troubling sin that remains hidden in the deeper recesses of my mind and spirit. It is often the case that when we mature as believers, we don't always forsake our sin, we simply learn to cover it over better and to hide it. This is a very dangerous place to be, as

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In a day when we are mostly concerned with personal ambitions and pursuits, quick to judge and respond harshly to the hypocrisy and hurts that we may have experienced within the Church, remember that if we are genuine believers, we were not called to be individuals any longer. We represent the Bride of Christ, the Church, in its devotion and loyalty to God the Father through the Spirit. 2

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This question was recently posted on the blog for The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood:How can a Christian single woman enter into the mystery of Christ and the church if she never experiences marriage? Elisabeth Elliot has given an answer to this that we prefer to quote rather than try(in vain) to improve: The gift of virginity, given to every one to offer back to God for His use, is a

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I am currently completing a master's degree in biblical counseling, as most of my friends and family know. What many of you may not know is what that specifically means. While I will not try and explain it all in one post, let me give you a few brief thoughts to consider about the way that each of gives and receives counsel. Because let's face it, we are all counselors in some fashion or another.

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A humorous media graphic for all our technological interests, or should we say self-interests? (courtesy of Pastor Chris Brauns)

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So I really am not trying to avoid posting something original these days, but just keep coming across other blog posts that I find to be extremely thought-provoking! This one comes from a newly discovered blog that I am really excited about reading more from. I strongly suggest taking a peek:http://thoughtsontheword.blogspot.com/2008/10/27-dresses.htmlAnd...I will be posting something original in

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I hate to copy from someone else's blog very often and not be original in my own right, however, when someone has something so profound to offer I think it can be really helpful. Let's face it, we all run in different circles and passing things around is really the only way all of us have access to encouraging things. So I hope this nugget from a fellow biblical counselor can be of encouragement

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http://girltalk.blogs.com/girltalk/2009/05/measly-bits.html

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This morning was a wonderful time as I reflected on some precious blessings that the Lord has consistently and faithfully placed in my life. I am so glad that I was able to ponder these things before what happened this afternoon, as it was affirmation that He was refining my heart to be right before Him without the knowledge of the huge blessing that was to come. First, let me say that in light

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In the past couple of years I have seen an increasing trend among Christian young ladies to think that when summer rolls around or we prepare for a special event (such as prom, weddings, a recognition party) that somehow our standards for modesty seem to adjust, and usually not for the better. While this topic is often greeted with groans in our hearts because we get tired of hearing it or even

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In my graduate studies, I recently had to read an article entitled, "Who Are We? Needs, Longings, and the Image of God in Man" by Edward T. Welch. I was greatly impacted by the clarity of his admonitions about the dangers of contemporary psychology and its damaging effects upon the modern Church. Christians everywhere, even in good theologically sound churches are embracing an understanding of "

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This week has definitely been one of those weeks where many things seem to NOT go according to my plans or ideas of what would be pleasant. However, my wonderful Savior continues to show me quite clearly that His ways and plans are far superior to mine! After facing some measure of disappointment from losing my special ring, then yesterday I received two traffic citations totaling over $200! With

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I typically do not attempt to talk about my desires for motherhood, especially publicly, due to the fact that it could easily be perceived as patronizing or insensitive to the many women who have experienced deeply painful longings for motherhood. I think of all the precious women who have miscarried, had stillborn children, buried young ones, are struggling with fertility issues, or awaiting the

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One of my pastors wisely said to me in a recent meeting..."If you don't have any enemies, then you stand for nothing." I am not sure if this was an original quote or something he remembered from someone else, but either way, it sure does ring true!

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Well this is a really crazy week for me as I prepare for the new onslaught of all my graduate summer courses. I have seven assignments due (mainly papers) this Monday so....needless to say I have not had a lot of extra time to expound on some of my formulating ideas for a blog post. However, last week I spent some time reading some very insightful blog posts on Shepherd's Fellowship by Dr. John

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In recent months, I have taken on more and more responsibilities in many areas of my life and ministry. As a single woman who is not working full-time, it becomes easy to say "yes" to everything. I am eager to spend my life encouraging others, filling needed positions, and pursuing the call of God upon my life. I know for certain that God has providentially ordained my single days, as long as

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A few days back a very dear friend of mine shared the following thoughts with some young women we share in ministry with. I found it to be very encouraging and with her permission, wanted to pass it along. I pray it provokes you to thought this beautiful day!This past week, my husband and I visited Liberty University, where we graduated 12 years ago this May. We were able to see old friends and

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I have had some really precious times in recent days with my sister and her two awesome kiddos! So this post is nothing thought-provoking, just a tribute of gratitude to God for the wonderful relationships He has blessed me with!

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My walk with Christ:* Is my closest friend and companion Christ?* Is intimacy with Christ my most valued treasure?Worldly Pursuits:* Do I waste time on the Internet, reading novels, watching movies or TV instead of disciplining myself in the graces of biblical womanhood like keeping my home, learning new tools to benefit my home and ministry, reading helpful and sanctifying materials?* Am I

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So I have been busy studying these days for a lesson I am to teach on biblical womanhood to my college girls. I have been mostly studying about how our design as women has been corrupted, first by the Fall, and then over the past centuries of feminist infiltration. In the midst of my studying, I also have been taking a class at my church on redeemed womanhood. It was an eight-week course taught

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In my studies through the book of Matthew, one of the most meaningful things that has been pointed out has been the plethora of names for Jesus. I copied them into my journal and look at it from time to time as a reminder of all the character qualities that are represented in just a name. When someone says a name, it is amazing to think of all that can be conveyed in that one word.First and

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I have been asked several times in recent days how a single young woman is to display properly biblical femininity even if she does not marry or bear children. This is often a difficult question, as I certainly have not made a conscious decision to forgo marriage or children. In God's providence, He simply has not brought a man into my path who either lines up with my spiritual goals, or who is

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I came across this twin-brother duo a few weeks back through a link on Facebook. I bought their album on ITunes and it has greatly ministered to me. Check it out and be encouraged!

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