Fear

It seems that there are often times in life when we don't do something or we refuse to fully engage in a relationship because we are fearful it won't last or that we might do something to spoil it. We spend our time anxious about whether the blessing that has been granted will remain, fretting over the unknown of when it might disappear. I spend far too much time analyzing the paths of my life - not that it is wrong to analyze, for wise examination is a profitable necessity for the sanctified believer. However, too much analyzing can remove the enjoyment of what God has given and is even an expression of sinful ingratitude. What it really boils down to is selfish pride, placing our own restrictions and expectations on what God, in His perfect providence, has graciously bestowed upon us.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change (James 1:17).

Matthew Henry says this in his commentary on James 1:
"No condition of life is such as to hinder rejoicing in God. Those of low degree may rejoice, if they are exalted to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom of God; and the rich may rejoice in humbling providences, that lead to a humble and lowly disposition of mind. Worldly wealth is a withering thing. Then, let him that is rich rejoice in the grace of God, which makes and keeps him humble; and in the trials and exercises which teach him to seek happiness in and from God, not from perishing enjoyments."

So when I am blessed with a relationship that is precious, or a material good that somehow has enriched my life - may I remember to be humble in thankfulness, but to seek happiness in God alone, as all these other enjoyments will perish eventually, whether a physical good like a relaxing vacation or a reliable car - or if it be even an encouraging and precious friendship in which there is mutual spiritual care. Nothing will have permanent value outside of its relationship to man's salvation and sanctification. May I then not allow fear of losing something to hinder me from enjoying its sweetest blessings here, but in the power of the Spirit, transform that fear into a biblical humility that is overwhelmed with gratitude that a great and mighty God would allow me to enjoy the benefits of such a thing even for a few moments!